We are just human beings. We are not perfect. We commit mistakes and we cannot please everybody. But of course men and women are different in general. There are some qualities of men and that of women that we don’t like. To start it off, let’s find out what is wrong or what is the problem with men.
The problem with men in general is that they sometimes hid their true feelings or emotions. They want to appear strong and not an emotional or sentimental one. Sometimes even if they want to cry, they try to stop it or hid their true emotions because it can lessen their manhood/becoming a man or for them man must be strong and should not to succumb their emotions. Another problem with men is that they are sometimes not serious in a particular thing and one example is in a relationship. There are really men who are not serious in a relationship and just thought of it as a game not knowing that he may hurt that person who he is having a relationship with. Another problem with men is that they are not easily contented with just one thing. Just like if ever they are already married, they are still looking for another girl or as what they call it, concubines. They are still not contented with their wife and their relationship with each other. Lastly, the problem with men is that they believe they know everything and they would insist in what they believe that they are right all the time. Just like our father or our brothers, they believe they are the ones always right and they know of how we feel even though what they think is wrong and we don’t feel the same about the way they think it would be.
On the other hand, the problem with women is that they love secrets and gossips. Yes, I think it is the nature of women to be more talkative than men and loves to share secrets with other people. They love to backbite and gossiped or even spread some rumors to other people too. Another problem with women is that they tend to be judgmental. Whenever they know a particular person, the tendency is they will judge him/her at first without knowing who he/she really is. But when the time comes, they would still want to find out or know the person more. They are just judgmental at first. Just like men, women sometimes also hid their true feelings too. Just like when a boy courts a girl, sometimes there are really girls who are always in denial even though they feel the same way that the boy feels and this is one example of women/girls who hid their true feelings sometimes to a particular thing or person.
But of course, we cannot please everybody. There are some who doesn’t like you and there are some who likes you no matter who you are. But in our society, it is accepted already that men and women by nature are like this and like that. And of course, it’s just natural to accept it because God created men and women and we are all sinners and we all commit mistakes because we are not perfect. Let us also remember that “No man is an island.” Each of us needs each other in order to live.
The problem with men in general is that they sometimes hid their true feelings or emotions. They want to appear strong and not an emotional or sentimental one. Sometimes even if they want to cry, they try to stop it or hid their true emotions because it can lessen their manhood/becoming a man or for them man must be strong and should not to succumb their emotions. Another problem with men is that they are sometimes not serious in a particular thing and one example is in a relationship. There are really men who are not serious in a relationship and just thought of it as a game not knowing that he may hurt that person who he is having a relationship with. Another problem with men is that they are not easily contented with just one thing. Just like if ever they are already married, they are still looking for another girl or as what they call it, concubines. They are still not contented with their wife and their relationship with each other. Lastly, the problem with men is that they believe they know everything and they would insist in what they believe that they are right all the time. Just like our father or our brothers, they believe they are the ones always right and they know of how we feel even though what they think is wrong and we don’t feel the same about the way they think it would be.
On the other hand, the problem with women is that they love secrets and gossips. Yes, I think it is the nature of women to be more talkative than men and loves to share secrets with other people. They love to backbite and gossiped or even spread some rumors to other people too. Another problem with women is that they tend to be judgmental. Whenever they know a particular person, the tendency is they will judge him/her at first without knowing who he/she really is. But when the time comes, they would still want to find out or know the person more. They are just judgmental at first. Just like men, women sometimes also hid their true feelings too. Just like when a boy courts a girl, sometimes there are really girls who are always in denial even though they feel the same way that the boy feels and this is one example of women/girls who hid their true feelings sometimes to a particular thing or person.
But of course, we cannot please everybody. There are some who doesn’t like you and there are some who likes you no matter who you are. But in our society, it is accepted already that men and women by nature are like this and like that. And of course, it’s just natural to accept it because God created men and women and we are all sinners and we all commit mistakes because we are not perfect. Let us also remember that “No man is an island.” Each of us needs each other in order to live.
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